I'm more laid back and not very outgoing. I could definitely stand to lose weight, but I think her comment must be referring more to my personality than my size. She quickly told me that I didn't look intimidating and that I was like a teddy bear. She laughed and asked me when the last time I got in a fight was.
I was joking around saying I'd like to see what she looks like when she gets angry (since she never seems to look angry or frustrated) and when was the last time she got in a fight to see what she'd say.
There is a girl at work I was flirting with.